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Write better: from match to first date
What to reply when nothing comes to mind, how to keep conversations alive, and when to make the move to meet.
The complete guideLearn how to message effectively on dating apps. From your first message to the first date – with examples, strategies, and tips for dealing with ghosting.
- All text, no meet: How to spot a pen pal situation
Been texting for weeks, but a date never happens? Here's how to spot a pen pal situation and gracefully end the endless texting.
Updated on 29 September 2026 - Getting the Last Laugh: A Guide to Witty Messages That Aren't Cringey
Using humour in your dating messages is a skill. Learn how to be witty in your chats without being cringey. Get tips for funny messages that lead to more matches.
Updated on 9 September 2026 - The 'What Are We?' Talk: How to Define the Relationship Without Pressure
Find out how to bring up exclusivity and define your relationship status when you're dating, without applying pressure or scaring them away.
Updated on 2 September 2026
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